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Part I:  Description

What is a Trigger?

  • Definition: In psychology, a trigger is a stimulus (a sight, sound, smell, situation, etc.) that causes an intense and often overwhelming emotional or psychological reaction in an individual.

  • Connection to Past Experiences Triggers are often linked to previous trauma, negative events, or deeply rooted anxieties, even if the person isn't consciously aware of the connection.

  • Fight, Flight, or Freeze: Triggered responses often activate the body's stress response system, leading to a surge of emotions like anger, panic, or dissociation.

  • Not Simply "Overreactions": Triggers activate a deeply ingrained survival response and can feel uncontrollable to the individual experiencing them.

Why Recognizing Triggers Matters

  • Self-Understanding: Identifying your triggers is the first step towards managing reactions and healing old wounds.

  • Improved Coping: Therapy can provide tools to understand triggers, develop coping mechanisms, and gradually decrease reactivity.

  • Relationship Aid: Explaining triggers to loved ones can build empathy and help them avoid inadvertently triggering you.

Part II:  Common Questions

1. How do I recognize if something is a trigger for me?

Answer: Pay attention to these signs:

  • Intense Emotional Reaction: Anger, fear, sadness, or panic out of proportion to the current situation.

  • Physical Changes: Racing heart, sweating, difficulty breathing, feeling like you might faint.

  • "Flashback" Feeling: Feeling transported back to a past experience, even if just momentarily.

  • Urge to Escape: A strong need to shut down, numb out, lash out, or flee the situation.

2. Can anything be a trigger?

Answer:  Potentially, yes. Triggers are highly individual and depend on your history:

  • Sensory: Sounds, smells, textures, visual cues (similar to those linked to a past event)

  • Situational: Being in a specific type of place or experiencing conflicts that echo past dynamics.

  • Words or Phrases: Hearing things that relate to a painful experience, regardless of the speaker's intent.

  • Internal Triggers: Even thoughts, memories, or physical sensations can act as triggers if linked to trauma.

3. Is being triggered the same as being overly sensitive?

Answer: No. Triggers tap into a deeper mechanism:

  • Overly Sensitive: A temporary emotional state, often due to stress, lack of sleep, etc.

  • Triggered: Activates a stress response system often rooted in past experiences, making it difficult to respond rationally in the moment.

4. Can triggers be overcome?

Answer:  While it takes work, overcoming the intensity of triggers is possible through:

  • Therapy: Processing the underlying trauma or anxieties can lessen triggers' power.

  • Coping Skills: Learning grounding techniques, mindfulness, and distress tolerance for the triggered moment.

  • Gradual Exposure (if appropriate): To desensitize yourself to a trigger with professional guidance.

5. How can I support someone who has triggers?

Answer:  Here's how to help:

  • Listen & Believe: Validate their experience without judgment, even if you don't fully understand the trigger.

  • Learn Their Triggers (if they're willing to share): This helps you avoid unknowingly causing them distress.

  • Respect their Process: They may need space or utilize coping tools when triggered. Be patient.

  • Don't Pressure Them: Healing from triggers takes time, and they may not always have rational responses.

Part III:  Additional Resources

Books about Triggers

"The Body Keeps the Score" by Bessel van der Kolk, M.D.  

  • A seminal text on trauma, it explores how past experiences get stored physically and lead to triggered responses.

"Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving" by Pete Walker:  

  • While focused on a specific diagnosis, it clearly explains triggers, and offers coping strategies.

"Getting Past Your Past" by Francine Shapiro: 

  • This introduces EMDR therapy, a well-recognized treatment for trauma-based triggers, explaining the process and its effectiveness.

Online Articles and Websites about Triggers

  • Verywell Mind: Search for "Triggers" ( Offers articles on understanding triggers, their relation to mental health conditions, and coping mechanisms.

  • The Mighty: Search for "Triggers": A platform where people with mental health conditions and chronic illnesses share their experiences. Many articles discuss living with triggers.

  • Psychology Today: Search for "Emotional Triggers" ( Features blogs by therapists often delving into how triggers arise and strategies for managing them.

Other Resources about Triggers

  • Therapy Directories:  Search for therapists specializing in trauma, PTSD, or anxiety disorders. They will have deep expertise in helping people work with triggers.

  • Support Groups:  Online or local groups for those with trauma histories or certain diagnoses can provide validation and a space to learn coping skills.

  • Self-Help Apps:  Some mindfulness or mental health apps include sections on understanding your triggers and practicing calming techniques when triggered.

  • Self-Observation: Track your own emotional reactions. A trigger journal can help you identify patterns and what helps calm you down.

Part IV:  Disclaimer

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